Following the recent pathetic paternity story which went viral on social media, many spouses have started SUSPECTING their partners thus, scrutinizing their moves...searching for the minutest of details about their workplace, office or business operations...combing their phones and even screening their friends.
Of course, that is the bandwagon effect you get when such scandalous, adulterous and disastrous event or incident occurs....
But we have to thread softly....to avoid a greater disaster which could lead to an explosion...judging by our peculiar attitude and traits as a people.
It is better to go on your
knees to pray for God's intervention and protection over your marriage rather than turning yourself into a sniffer dog, watching and suspecting every move of your spouse thus, creating an inconducive atmosphere around your home. This could lead to high blood pressure...if not cardiac arrest.
If there has never been any reason whatsoever to suspect your spouse before now....why create or go into unnecessary suspicion or putting up an attitude of unfriendliness between you and your spouse?
Was your husband or wife anywhere near the parties or families involved in the scandalous case? Is your wife or husband a friend to any of the persons involved? But even if, he or she is...does it imply that he or she would do the same to you?
We have to be very careful here and now to avoid more dangerous stories. DNA is good for those that wish to seek for whatever they want to prove. But we must be careful here.
If more homes break over this issue then, the situation throws our society into greater danger of single mothers spring up everywhere and poor parenting among others. The future might be terrible for our youth.
Let love lead and guide you. Let God live in your hearts, homes and marriages.
Stop the suspicion...Stop the search!!!